5 Positive Things About Giving Birth From a Father’s Perspective

When reflecting on childbirth, such an important moment in life, sadly many testimonials tend to focus on the negative aspects. While this is totally understandable, I would like to mention the positives and the beautiful things that happen throughout such a hard but beautiful moment, in its own way.

Let me start by highlighting the fact that I am a father so have no idea what it is actually like to go through this life changing mile stone. I do however know how it felt emotionally and mentally to play the part of supporting my partner through the birth of both my children.

1 - Reveals a new part of you that until then you didn't know existed.

The best part of childbirth is the present you get at the end, your child. I think most people will agree that becoming a parent, whilst terrifying, is one of my greatest moments in life.

2 - You fall in love again.

I never knew that I could love something as much as I love my children. It’s that ‘I would jump in front of a train for you’ kinda love that’s almost scary it’s so intense!

In supporting your partner through childbirth you bare witness to the beautiful life you have created opening up a new layer of love between you and your other half. Going through such an experience as childbirth together, I developed a deeper love and respect for just how strong my partner is and it strengthened our bond as a couple.

3 - The Health benefits of Pregnancy and Motherhood.

Long story short apparently you have better periods, better sex and lower risks for conditions such as cancer (especially breast), multiple sclerosis and heart disease as well as a boost in mood. Who won’t want that!

4 - It is one of the most empowering things you can do.

Knowing that you, and your body are capable of 'creating' such a beautiful life is easily one of the most extraordinary and gratifying  things you can possibly do. Regardless the kind of birth you have, nothing will ever compare to this emotional moment, and how proud and accomplished you will feel to have brought a child into the world.

5 - You finally meet your baby.

After nine long months dealing with the symptoms of pregnancy you finally get to hold meet your baby. There is no greater feeling in the world than that!